Sex Toy Review: The Bullet

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Sex Toy Review: The Bullet
First and foremost, I would like to say that I’ve never considered myself a fan of sex toys. I prefer my fingers while masturbating, or a partner’s fingers/tongue/cock/whatever works best in the moment. There have been several times I can recall where using a toy totally changed my mood and made me not as into it. Every once in a blue moon I will get wild and use a strap on with my partner, maybe on a special occasion like valentine’s day or christmas, and then lock it away in the closet til the next year.

When we decided to review toys for the blog I was not overly excited, but I did want to give it a go and see if I could enhance my relationship with myself, as well as please my partner since she loves sex toys. I have been using the bullet for over a month, and I have found this experience to be much like dating.

Dating my Bullet

 

Me at SHELA

 

I got this bullet from the Sexual Health Expo in Los Angeles, it was free in my gift bag. I almost threw it out but decided to hold on to it, and it came in handy while looking for something to review. Before you think I’m too boring, hear me out. This is a great starter toy because it is not intimidating, it is cute and small. One of the issues I have had with toys is that dildos look like cocks {DUH, but a struggle since I couldn’t accept my bisexuality}, and others look too big or intense for my liking. The bullet has been my gateway toy.

 

 

 

The First Date

On our first date I just laid it down on my clit and played with the vibration level. I enjoyed switching between high and low, and leaving it there for several minutes. I usually need clit stimulation and penetration to cum, but for some reason I haven’t been into fingering myself lately, so I just sat with the awesome clit stimulation, plus, I love the noise of the vibration. Since I’m not used to the sensation of toys yet, I had some awkward feelings come up, and decided to kick the bullet out of my bed. Did I cum? NO. But that’s not always necessary.  I liked it enough to go on date number two a few days later.

The Second Date

The second time I played with the bullet I watched Tumblr porn while I had it vibrating on my clit. That was a nice addition. As I have been using the bullet and building trust, I am also allowing myself permission to gain pleasure from it. Once I started letting go of whatever mental blocks and shame I had around it, I felt bold enough to put the bullet all the way inside me. This felt AMAZING. But I still did not cum. This is a recurring theme with me… I really love to edge. But I also need to cum every once in awhile, so it can get frustrating.

The Third Date

By now, the toy had a special place that it lives in my drawer. I look forward to using it. It is a trusted partner, basically… so the third time I used it, I used it WITH the Shake Dildo {my other toy I have been courting, and my next review that I am SO excited about!} I placed the bullet on my clit, set the vibration level to HIGH {with balance and determination it did not fall off 😉 }, and I used the dildo to penetrate myself. YES, I have made massive steps forward with my toy exploration. It. was. Heavenly. I came. And I came hard. 5 out of 5 stars for the wonderful, but simple, vibrating bullet.

In conclusion..

A lot has changed for me pretty quickly. Becoming poly and learning to enjoy sex toys, I’m well on my way, dear sex blog! In my younger dating years I would date often and without anxiety… if a hookup happened, I was fine. If it got awkward, it didn’t matter. I moved on quick. Now, I get EXTREME anxiety about going on dates, and I always give possible partners my spiel on the fact that I need an emotional connection before you will get in my pants. I need to be wined and dined, and I guess I need to get to know my toys the same way before I’ll let them make me cum. I suppose this may get easier as time passes and I get more practice in, but this was a fun experience and I’m glad to share it. Can’t wait to tell you about my time with the shake dildo next…

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Megan Ashley is a blogger, life coach, podcaster and 1/2 of the TakeBackYourSex duo. Her work focuses on; relationships/sexuality, self love, and living with PTSD, anxiety & depression. She is currently working on a book about surviving attempted murder & self love after trauma {Which will be out in about 12 years}.

She identifies as, in no particular order: A feminist, queer, polyamorous, kinky, proud slut. In her free time she enjoys napping with her partner, reading several books at once, and hanging out with her two cats Moose & Bettie Page.
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About Megan Ashley

Megan Ashley is a blogger, life coach, podcaster and 1/2 of the TakeBackYourSex duo. Her work focuses on; relationships/sexuality, self love, and living with PTSD, anxiety & depression. She is currently working on a book about surviving attempted murder & self love after trauma {Which will be out in about 12 years}. She identifies as, in no particular order: A feminist, queer, polyamorous, kinky, proud slut. In her free time she enjoys napping with her partner, reading several books at once, and hanging out with her two cats Moose & Bettie Page.

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