Coming out is an ongoing process part 2: Rainbows come from darkness…
PART 1 As I previously wrote, coming out is an ongoing process. I think I’ve had some setbacks. I hadn’t returned to men’s nude yoga. I haven’t had another date… Read more »
Coming Out As Kinky
Shame and secrecy have plagued some of my vanilla relationships, but those days are over. These days, I am kinky and proud. Still, there was a time in my life… Read more »
My Name Is Not Hot Chocolate, Fool!
Life is a never-ending round of musical chairs when you’re an introverted nerd who is super terrified of strangers, and I think the same can be said of dating while… Read more »
Episode 23 Knife Play with Dick Wound
LISTEN NOW: Libsyn |iTunes | Stitcher | GooglePlay Quickie Before the Guest: A New Study Claims That Having Good Sex And Sleeping Well Lead To Greater Happiness Than Being Rich!… Read more »
Sex-Positive Spotlight on Juliet Allen
Hi there! Thanks for chatting {errr… writing with us?} today! The goal of this segment is to shine a spotlight on someone in the sex-positive community and see what you’re… Read more »
Yoga and Self Image for the Queer Man
I have recently begun to embrace a truth about myself that I am really attracted to men. I am attracted to women too. More often, men just leave me… Read more »
Being Kinky Behind Your Vanilla Partner’s Back
I was once in a miserable marriage with a woman named Alison. The kinkiest thing we did was me tying her up while she wore lingerie and I used a… Read more »
Lead From Behind
I was raised by women with curves born from country cooking. In my formative years, I came to understand that the power women held was in the arches of their… Read more »
Episode 22 Love Me, Don’t Fetishize Me with Derek Collins
LISTEN NOW: Libsyn |iTunes | Stitcher | GooglePlay Quickie Before the Guest: Creating Consent Culture by Sex Coach Leigh Montavon. About the Guest: Derek Collins is the host of The… Read more »
Becoming the yes girl – how I dealt with rape
After my date rape happened, I started saying yes to sex more often. As I said in my first post, I didn’t think I deserved to suffer from this. It… Read more »